Clever names for online dating
It subconsciously creates the image of a woman who has not had the best of luck with men in the past.
By changing this statement to, "the perfect man for me is smart, fun and handsome," the perception completely changes.
These are the names that OK Cupid throws out when your preferred user name is taken.
To me, that just seems too dull and I wonder if you put any thought at all into creating your profile.
This subtle change portrays the image of a woman who is confident, in control and knows what she wants. It is a huge mistake to create a massive list of turnoffs, deal-breakers and qualities that you are looking for in a partner.
Stick to language that shows high levels of confidence whenever possible. While you may think this is a productive way to ward off unwanted suitors, all it does is make men think that you are a negative person and possibly jaded by one too many bad dates.
Seeing one unflattering picture is sometimes enough to make a man question everything he has seen prior to that photo.
As a rule of thumb, you are only as good as your worst picture.
The chief phrase is the dreaded, “But I’m a nice guy”.
I get so turned off by people who choose the generic computer-suggested user names.